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- the less you care, the more you breathe.
the less you care, the more you breathe.
you’re not losing the moment, the moment is losing you.
sometimes the weight isn’t from what you’re carrying.
it’s from how tight you’re holding it.

we grow up thinking:
if i care enough, if i try hard enough,
i can control the outcome.

we grip the steering wheel until our knuckles turn white.
we watch every word.
we run mental replays of every mistake.
but here’s what no one tells you—
you can care and still choke the life out of what you love.
the less you care?
the more you breathe.
the more you live.

not “careless” like throwing everything away.
but caring in a way that doesn’t cost your peace.
a loose grip.
space for the thing to grow without you smothering it.
because here’s the trap:
over control is just fear in a nice outfit.
fear of losing.
fear of not being enough.
fear of what they’ll say if you fail.

and fear will keep you from the exact life you’re trying to protect.
i used to think letting go was giving up.
now i know it’s the only way to actually have something.
love yourself enough to stop trying to earn your own worth.
love yourself enough to chase dreams that make your stomach drop.
love yourself enough to get lost on the way.

and here’s the part that still wrecks me—
even when you don’t feel “ready”…
you’re still allowed to show up.
especially then.
⚡ your challenge:
today, take one thing you’ve been holding with a death grip—
a project, a relationship, a decision—
and loosen your hands.
give it air.
give yourself air.
because the less you care about controlling the moment,
the more you actually get to live it.
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stay dangerous. stay light.
we’re with you.
— ethan & remy from intredis 🛸
outwork. outlast. outlive.
